Sunday, March 27, 2005
NDP trainin is really very short...i think the cadets muz be in suspense...coz they have to come again next wk...all becoz of the rain...shall not comment much on e ns men...coz afterall i will be enlisted in less than 1 yr time... ARH!!!!it has been so long since we get together chatted happily with no worries in mind..though i have, my chem paper is tml..haha...but at that instant, nothing else came to my mind..we settle down with paper and pen..things work out..tats so amazing yeah...really enjoyed myself..especially we get things work... : ]
we took bus home together...and ppl slept so soundly...haha..reached home at abt 9...
Maturity is very impt...i believe there is no right or wrong ans to certain problems..it purely depends on how mature one is tat will affect the decision or shud i say conclusion...but is sad to see e ppl who u regarded as frens yet turn out to be some1 who caused prob to u...and the thing is not juz u, but to a grp of ppl...reality is juz this cruel... things arent simple...even simplest things will have its complicated sight...abit contradictin rite?yes..but to me, it is true...
u did something right and gd, ppl will not appreciate..they will oni think tat it is expected to be tat way..
when u did something wrong...ppl will not only blame u, but oso make complain and condemned u.
this is reality...
Forgive and forget....this is wad i have done quite recently..about 2-3 weeks ago?haha...i really feel great...and when u oso heard tat e person oso said he has started to put behind e past n accept u, is even more promising...it is really very impt to put aside the past n see some1 as a new person be4 u can forgive his or her mistake...if not, u will nvr able to see tat the person has changed..coz the prejudice is oreadi there....
it makes u feel so much better after u forgive..really..i have finally feel it....
i believe there is no one who enjoys doin wrong things. there muz be a reason for the person for doin something wrong...there muz be...we have to understand tat...perhaps with this, it can help us to really forgive and forget.....
Unforgiveness may be aimed at others, but the greatest wound is to yourself.-Scott Johnson
Holding on to anger, resentment and hurt only gives you tense muscles, a headache and a sore jaw from clenching your teeth. Forgiveness gives you back the laughter and the lightness in your life.-Joan Lunden
An eye for an eye ends up making the whole world blind-Mohandas Ghandi
Love, give and forgive and you'll be blessed. -Jose B. Cabajar